The men seated across from me tell me that my husband is in a bad situation. Photographs of my husband found by Helen on the porch this yesterday morningalarm me. Tanner is wearing the black pin-striped suit and red tie Helen put out for him when I last saw him. His arms appear to be tied behind his back. He is gagged. My husband’s gagged face is wild with anger, his handsome features distorted as if he has just been to the dentist by the gag. This image stays with me as the men seated across from me talk.
My husband’s cell phone was in his filthy suit jacket found with the photos. There are several messages from me. A woman whose voice I do not recognize phoned him. Who was she? His secretary, Patty, called several times. Helen said Patty phoned Truro. I thought Tanner took the day off, played hooky because the kids and I were gone. Bart Stevens phoned. Tanner missed his Tee Time. Ben White called to remind Tanner about a baseball game they are to coach together tonight even though our son will not be on the team this season. Tanner has told me that Ben White can’t handle the kids alone. The woman whose voice I do not recognize phoned Tanner again. She was from a restaurant. Tanner left his American Express Card behind when he paid for the business luncheon last week. More urgent calls followed from Tanner’s secretary. A dozen more calls from people –all looking for my husband. The men seated across from me want to talk about the voice of the woman who I do not know. She called about the credit card. I do not like what they are suggesting.
He was in my mouth I think now as I sit across from the men asking me questions. I had my husband in my mouth the last time I saw him. Tanner wanted sex before I left for the Cape, the way he always wants sex. The woman whose voice I do not know is not a mistress. My husband is not having an affair. I do what I have to do. My husband was in my mouth the last time I saw him. I want to tell these men that.
Tanner was drinking at the business luncheon where he left his credit card late last week the men tell me.. He ordered drinks with lunch. Is he a drinker they want to know. I almost laugh, knowing Tanner’s family–their history. My husband was not drunk I insist, as if I was there with him. I look across the space of my kitchen at the men.
“Your husband was drinking,” the first man says.
“He was drinking?” the second man asks.
I see that the third man writes it down. The woman at the end of the kitchen counter nods.
“He had been drinking,” the first man says again.
“Was he drunk?” the second man asks me.
“Drunk?” I ask, hating the word as I consider this. “Tanner–drunk?”
I do not like the word drunk being used to describe my husband. Appearances are everything I remind myself, thinking about my mother.
“He was drinking, not drunk,” I say. “Tanner has a drink with lunch sometimes when he is doing business. My husband does not drink. He hates drinking.”
“The server who called about his credit card said he seemed fine when we spoke to her, a woman named Heidi. Your husband is a regular. He often gives her his card for the meal but that day he forgot it,” the first man tells me. “He did not seem intoxicated. But if he was drunk…”
“My husband does not get drunk during the middle of the day, during business,” I say now. “That I can tell you. He has a drink to be social. Men do that for business!”
“If he was drunk on the day he was taken your husband might have been incapacitated,” the man taking notes suggests. “Drunk, he would be easier to overpower if it came to that.”
“Someone managed to get the better of him,” the other man says. “Tie him up like that, take him somewhere he didn’t want to go.”
“I assure you that my husband was not drunk,” I say, calm.
The men asking me questions are quiet. I almost consider telling them that I gave into sex before I left for Cape Cod, catching him at the door as he was about to leave for his morning run. My husband was in my mouth one of the last times that I saw him. In the end I don’t. It isn’t an image I want them to have of us. Appearances are everything I remind myself. My mother’s voice runs through my head as I tell the men asking me questions what they want to hear.
“Your husband is in a very bad situation.” the woman at the end of the kitchen counter says to me.
My husband will fight to come back to us I tell myself.
Connie______________
I hope to convince Mike to go to the movies tonight. There is a new one I want to see at the LAKE Theatre. Mike hates going to the movies. He complains about the expense. We have to treat ourselves sometimes, i think.
Mike doesn’t want me to answer the phone. I am not allowed to answer the phone in my own house because my husband thinks it might be a bill collector. After all these years I can’t believe we are back in this again. When our kids were teenagers we lived like this. After the bankruptcy Mike vowed never to be in this place again but his medication is so expensive. We have to decide between medicine and food sometimes. Our kids don’t know. We don’t want to burden them with it. When the phone rings Mike tells me I can’t answer it.
I can’t boil eggs. No matter how hard I try they never come out right–always too soft in the middle. This morning I ruined the eggs. Mike is upset. He has taken over making the eggs, disgusted with me I can tell.
“Don‘t fucking hover over me, Connie!” he screams as I attempt to help him. “Can you cook it a little more? I ask–anxious to make it right.
“Get away from me!” he bellows. “I just want a fucking hardboiled egg, Connie!”
Mike is always hungry after his paper route. This morning he seems to be starving.
“I wish that I could cook better,” I say.
“You can’t cook fucking at all! He grunts. “You can’t do a fucking thing right, Connie!”
His anger is not only about the eggs–I know. Mike is stressed out over our financial situation. I know that.
My husband hates when the collectors call. He screams and yells. I can always tell when Mike has had a bad day when I come home from my job at a Greeter at Wal-Mart, there have been more calls than usual. Mike is agitated, more of a bear than usual, when he speaks to bill collectors on the phone.
“I know your name–you fucking Bitch!” Mike will scream into the phone. “I’m going to fucking hunt you down!”
He will slam the phone down then telling me he doesn’t want to talk about it when I warn him he can’t threaten people like that. My husband is all bark–no bite. But strangers do not know that.
I realize that Mike is ashamed that we are in financial disaster again. He hates that we had to pay for his medication with credit cards until they were jammed, some over their limits again the way they were years ago when the kids were young. Now our kids have their own kids. Amber is a lawyer. She would help us if we asked. Mike will not ask. Jason makes a fortune designing those video games. He has a young family like Amber. Mike won’t let me tell them about our problems. He won’t let me answer the phone.
Because Mike is outside fighting with the lawnmower to get it started, preparing to mow lawn that is so short it will not need to be mowed for another week, I answer the phone when it rings. The voice on the other end lifts my spirits. I immediately start asking questions. My neighbor Gwen has talked for weeks about going back to Cape Cod with her grown daughters for the summer. Now, I listen. Something terrible has happened to Tanner.
For so much of our marriage Owen has not touched me. That should have been my first clue. We kissed and hugged, he always liked spooning. But really touch me, he didn’t do that very often. I ignored it–busy. It was easier to stay busy.
After we lost our son he was more attentive. Grief–I thought. It does that. Now that Tanner is missing, has been kidnapped, my mother seems more aware of my younger sister somehow. Grief does that. My mother thinks Tanner is already dead. People do not survive abductions I remind myself. Grief, at first I responded to it with Owen after Bobby died. I was glad for it. But Owen wanted to stay in that horrible space. He seemed to be drowning in the sea of sorrow our lives had become. We lost our son. He died. Bobby died because I did not go to him. Owen asked me to stay with him. I stayed with him because we were having sex. I was too hungry for it. The promise of sex from a husband who did not touch me kept me from my son.
While I waited for my husband to touch me the way I needed to be touched my son was choking. He was crying out for me. I heard him. We both did. Owen asked me to stay. Bobby was quiet. A bad dream I imagined, something that would pass. I did not go to him. What kind of mother does not go to her child? I am a terrible mother.
Miranda is on the phone talking about the wedding in Boston this weekend. I tell her I will have to miss it because we have a family emergency here on the Cape. That is all I say to her. She is talking about the wedding the TODAY SHOW is planning with viewer input this summer. An event we are in charge of. She is talking fast, her trademark. Miranda Adams speaks quickly. It causes people to become caught up with her latest obsession.
“Our viewers have the BEST taste!” Miranda tells me.
She has said this all along, pleased so far with the choice of dresses for the bride, tuxes for the groom and his Best Man, and bridesmaid’s dresses. Miranda loved the ring the viewers picked and the hairstyle, an upswept casual yet elegant affair,chosen for the bride. She even was pleased with the choice of dresses for the mothers of the bride and groom. The only thing she disagreed with was venue. Miranda wanted the wedding to take place at TAVERN ON THE GREEN. She misses it so much. Of course that didn’t happen–a disappointment for her. But Miranda came around. Today she is ecstatic over the flowers the viewers have chosen.
I sit watching the ferry leave for Boston. Listening to Miranda talk about the TODAY SHOW wedding now I want to tell her I am falling apart. Sage, my teenage daughter is pregnant. I believe my husband loves men. The family crisis we are having here on Cape is that my baby sister’s husband has been kidnapped. Instead, I tell Miranda that I will not be able to attend the wedding planned in Boston for Friday Night. As Miranda informs me that she will take care of it I pretend to be taking notes about the TODAY SHOW wedding later this month, never letting on to Miranda over the phone that my life is falling apart.
Nothing is mine. People marveled over the year at how I did it, taking care of three boys and my husband. What was my secret to having the perfect family? The perfect home? How did I juggle it all so well, children, a husband and a house? The answer was the thing it took me forty-two years of living to know. Not a thing in this world belonged to me.
Standing on the beach with the baby, Jolie, now I feel as if it is the moment when I first knew this, as if I am living it all over again. Closing my eyes I want to live it again. Feeling the ocean rush between my toes as the tide comes in I need to live it all again right now for a moment of sanity. I am not here in this place of my life. No, I am back a few years when it was all so perfect.
Nothing is mine. This realization comes over me as I fluff pillows in the living room–picking up stray toys on my route to the family room. The house is askew with items it would not be if I had not gone to sleep when I did. Toys belonging to the boys are everywhere. A blanket is overthrown where my husband was seated late into the night. Edward was reading probably after everyone went to bed. The late hours of the night are his time. My time is early, wee hours before dawn. Cups are left on the counter in the kitchen. The trash container is overstuffed. This is what happens when I go to sleep too early, before the rest of my family.
Most nights I attempt to stay up beyond the others, so that I can have the enjoyment of moving through the quiet house picking up stray things as I turn out lights in various rooms. Last night that did not happen. Exhaustion overtook me. I climbed into the coolness of my perfectly made bed. Beneath the covers I found sleep, escape. This morning the house was unkempt. It was the price of my going to bed too early.
Because I keep a perfect home it all falls into place relatively quickly. My neighbor, Mrs. Gibson, taught me this. Keep a perfect place–it will always fall back into place. Toys are tucked into handy storage spaces. Pillows are fluffed. Blankets have been folded. A light sweeping of the wooden floors is complete. Mirrors are being wiped. The stray cups and saucers my husband and the kids left out are in the dishwasher. I have the dishwasher running already. A second load of laundry is being tortured in the washing machine. Towels have been neatly folded,ironing prepared to be ironed. In twenty minutes I will begin to make a breakfast of waffles, French Toast, pancakes, eggs, muffins, bacon, sausage, oatmeal– all from scratch. My mother never made anything from scratch. We always ate in the car, on the road as she liked to call it back then. It is five-forty in the morning.
Although I wash, dry, fold and iron six loads of laundry each day I only own four sets of clothes. Two of these sets are clothes I wear only in the house, ragged shorts and a T-shirt for summer and worn corduroy pants with an out of shape turtleneck for winter. I wear these clothes only in the home, every single day of each season. The other two sets of clothes are the ones I wear when I go out to bring our daughter to school or to do errands. They are duplicates of the others but in better shape. I only wear two colors, navy and black, because they do not show stains. Mrs. Gibson has informed me that I only wear one color–navy because she says black is not really a color. My neighbor has spent a great deal of time explaining things to me. She knows a certain glee instructing me.
When I first arrived in the neighborhood five years ago Mrs. Gibson took me under her wing. I was a mess, unable to live up to the standards of North Oak Park. Left on my own I would repeat the mess my own mother was when we were young. Mrs. Gibson stood at the bus stop with her six children.
“It’ll get easier once you have a schedule, Emily!” she told me.
I’d nodded, not believing her. The house was a mess, lawn overgrown. I could not cook a meal. That was when I only had one child. The stay-at-home-mother role was not for me. I turned to Mrs. Gibson for help. She put me on a schedule.
Stepping outside I move down the driveway to fetch the morning paper each day. On weekend mornings I include the paper with a breakfast tray I serve my Husband. Edward enjoys the Sunday Paper with his breakfast. News of this spread quickly on the play lots. Women I did not know, informed at play dates at the park by nannies who had been made aware of the rumors by other domestic help, spoke to me about it. They said that I should not do it, that I was the one who should be served breakfast in bed by my husband. I could no picture Edward serving me in bed. Mrs. Gibson said they were envious. I did not do it to arouse envy or anger. Mrs. Gibson had told me early on to do something nice for my husband at least once a week. Breakfast in bed on the weekends became that thing.
The gardens I tend are also the talk of the neighborhood. Although they are not as vast or as original as Mrs. Gibson’s the fact that I have three cutting gardens along with two very attractive flower gardens I keep untouched plus a healthy vegetable garden causes a stir. I know a certain pride over this. On my way down the driveway to get the newspaper I cut several of whatever is in bloom for my husband’s breakfast tray.
On this particular Sunday I am remembering I view my gardens with a critical eye. The newspaper I have fetched from the driveway for my wife is beneath my arm as I clip flowers to include with Edward’s breakfast tray. I come out of the house as a blob of shadow beneath the sun. This is what I am these days–a blob.
Standing in the center of my driveway I think about the one disappointing fact about my family life as I watch my neighbors ushering their kids for church. My family does not attend church. Edward and I were not married in church. A justice of the peace performed our ceremony. Once we relocated from Michigan where we met in college I attempted to get our family to church. We were stressed and running late before our third was born. I was off my schedule because of church. Finally we gave up the idea of attending church all together.
Because of poor judgment our youngest was not born in Oak Park at West Suburban Hospital the way we planned it. Late In the pregnancy we took a drive to Madison, Wisconsin to visit my sister Joyce then our college friends Karl and Paula Lambert who were already married when we met them at Ann Arbor. They live in Madison, where we traveled for a day trip.
Labor came fast and furious. We had been expecting the forty-three hour ordeal our other boys had given us. It did not happen that way. The youngest was born at Saint Mary’s Hospital in Madison, Wisconsin. Exhausted when it was time to leave the hospital after the birth Edward pushed me in a wheelchair. We followed Paula Lambert through the hospital in a daze.
During our extended visit Paula and Karl had been telling us that they did not practice religion. Instead they did good deeds. It was evident in their lifestyle. I secretly envied the sloppy house on Willy Street in a funky part of Madison Karl and Paula lived in. Edward, of course, was curious how they made their money–both of them working from home as artists. Most of all I observed how relaxed and normal their two sons appeared to be. Their view on religion was of interest to me.
As we followed Paula Lambert through Saint Mary’s Hospital I could barely see straight after the birth of our youngest who slept in my arms, exhausted and emotionally spent.
“I parked somewhere…” Paula stated, leading us through the empty corridors of the hospital late at night. “Oh, yes. By the statue of Mother Theresa.”Mother Theresa, even in my daze I was impressed that the hospital had a statue of Mother Theresa. We followed Paula without a word.
“Do you mean a state of the Virgin Mother–Mary?” my oldest son asked finally.
This registered in my head. We were in Saint Mary’s Hospital.
“That’s the one,” Paula said. “I knew it was a statue of a woman.”
Our son led us back to where he had seen the statue. I was secretly proud of him.
“You really don’t practice religion–do you?” I asked Paula Lambert.
“No–only good deeds,” she stated.
This stayed with me.
Our elderly neighbor Elvira Ramsey walks back and forth in front of her house each morning. She only walks the length of her property. That is as far as she allows herself to go. Prior to this year she walked with her husband. Now she walks alone because her husband is too ill. Holding the newspaper and flowers I clipped from the garden intended for my husband’s breakfast tray in my hand I cross the street to where Elvira is. She is taken back when I hand her the flowers intended for Edward‘s tray.
“You have such beautiful flowers,” the old woman tells me.
I tell her they are not really mine. Nothing in the world is mine. This is the secret of life. The thing I have been put on this planet to know.
Standing in the waves now holding my daughter I cry recalling this, no longer able to stay in that time. This is where I am, in the wake of Edward’s affairs. Joel Lowell has come into my life. He gave me Jolie. I am with my sisters and our mother, Cape Cod where I do not want to be. There is nowhere else for me to be. I have ost eveything. My home, my boys, my husband–all gone. My brother-in-law is gone, possibly dead. How can this be my life? It was all so perfect. For another moment I stand on the beach until finally turning around, gathering the strength I need to go back inside to comfort my younger sister. This is not about me. None of this that is happening is about me right now. Nothing in the world is mine.
She has called Connie Sullivan. Of course my daughter, the baby, has phoned Connie Sullivan instead of turning to me. All of her life in any given situation she has turned to Connie Sullivan. In heated conversation once my oldest daughter told me Connie Sullivan was more of a mother to them than I ever was.
“You abandoned us!” Joyce screamed the weekend I spent in Madison visiting her more than two years ago now, a winter when the city had so much snow it broke the record. “You might not have left us the way he did but in your own was you abandoned us too!”
“I did not!” I insisted. “Everything I did was for you girls!”
“Everything you did was for yourself, Mother!” Joyce said in a wild tone, her short dark hair reminding me of myself. “You were always absent. Your body might have been with us but that was about it. We could tell your mind was somewhere else. You wanted to be somewhere else!”
I turned away from her wounded, looking out over the frozen lake. She attempted to take it back but nothing Joyce said could do that. The accusation was already there. It is no surprise to me that my baby called Connie Sullivan.
The moment the woman arrived Connie Sullivan took over my role with my daughters. She hugged and embraced them all as if they were her own. I watched them all gathered around her. Plain and simple Connie stood holding the baby for a long while. My daughter fell into her. I could hear Connie say the thing I never say. Something I would never call her. Pressed against her tight, short and stout, Connie Sullivan let it slip out in a deliberate action I am sure.
“Amanda!” she whispered hard and loud into my daughter’s ear. “Poor, sweet, Amanda! I would do anything not to have this terrible thing happening to you!”
I saw my youngest daughter sink into her. The way I was sure that Connie wanted her to. Nobody ever calls her by her name, Amanda. To us she is the baby or Tanner’s Wife.
Seated across from Connie Sullivan now I feel left out, as if I am the intruder here with my own family.
“How was your flight, Connie?” Emily asks now, as if suddenly recalling her manners. “Was it okay?”
Connie gushes over the baby–Jolie.
“I never flew first class,” Connie says. “Amanda sent a first class ticket. I barely ever flew, only to Disney one year. That time I got sick, a headache I couldn’t shake once we took off on the way there and back. It was fine. The flight was fine.”
“It was good of you to come,” Ruth states. “To drop everything the way that you have.”
“Of course!” Connie states. “Have you heard anything?”
“I’m catching a flight to Boston,” my youngest daughter tells Connie. “The Boston Police are working with the FBI and Tom’s bosses at the Federal Reserve Bank.”
“I still think that is a mistake,” Zelda says. “You should stay here to hear from the kidnappers again. They contacted you here.”
“I have to go,” my daughter says.
“I’m going to drive her to the airport at Race Point Beach you just flew into,” Joyce tells Connie, taking over as she always does when there is trouble with one of her sisters. We are all thinking the same thing. My daughter has been trying to reach her husband since we left. If Tanner was kidnapped thed ay that we left he might be dead by now.
Prior to the ransom demand they were fighting in the kitchen, old injuries just beneath he surface. So often they can be like children. The baby never gets involved but the other three always fight. Once Joyce did not speak to Ruth for more than a year after a strained Thanksgiving. In crisis they always come together, though. When Joyce had her breast cancer scare that same year Ruth was right by her side. These are my girls.
“Do you want me to come to Boston with you?” Connie Sullivan asks my youngest daughter. “I came to help, Amanda–to be with you!”
“No, stay here,” the baby says. “Just knowing you are here is a help, Connie.”
“I can come,” I offer.
“You’ll just be in the way, Mother,” Joyce says in her authoritative tone.
My youngest nods in agreement. I sit silent listening to my daughters talk to one another the way they often do, as if I am not even in the room. As if I am not the one responsible for all of them. None of them would be here without me. Connie Sullivan stands at the center of them all, as if she somehow belongs.
Sage__________________
I was born guilty. My parents lost my brother before they had me. They never got over that. It filled our house up. Growing up I thought it was somehow my fault that my older brother died.
This baby beneath my CAPE COD sweatshirt was made on the bus. I hate riding the bus to school. All the cool kids sit in the back. Popular girls who are bitches. The freaks are in the front. Then there is the middle of the bus. The place where my baby was made.
On the beach I listen to my IPOD. The only escape from this misery my mother has brought me to. I hate being here with my aunts. My punishment for embarrassing my mother.
That’s why we came to Cape Cod. So nobody knows I am pregnant. I have not told anyone, not even my closest friend, Angela. Since I’ve been showing I’ve worn sweatshirts. June, July and August I will not be able to hide it. That’s why my mother brought me here where nobody knows me.
She wants me to give my baby away. I’m not sure I can do that. It works for her. Nobody back home has to know about it. We were just away for the summer at my aunt’s house in Truro, that’s what we’ll tell people. I can hear my mother saying it already. The only person who knows about the baby back home is Trey. The father of the baby who wants nothing to do with it. He won’t mind if the baby just ’goes away’ like my mother has promised me it can do if I arrange an adoption. Behind all of her flowery talk about a couple who crave a baby is that. My mother, like Trey, wants this baby to just go away.
I don’t want to see or talk to anyone. Connie Sullivan thinks I want to hear what she has to say. As if I asked her. Why does the whole damned world think they can talk about my baby?
“My Amber had a baby when she was your age,” Connie tells me now, on the beach with me as if we are friends. “A boy in high school got her pregnant. She kept the baby. It was hard, nearly ruined her life. But she met a nice guy, went to school at night but finally finished college. She’s a lawyer now. They live in a nice house with three kids.”
I look away from her.
“It’ll be hard but it can work out,” Connie says to me.
“What about the father?” I ask.
“He was never in the picture,” Connie Sullivan tells me. “Too immature to be a father when Amber had Danny. He’s no better now from what I have heard.”
I nod. She might as well be talking about Trey. He’s off enjoying his summer while I am here hiding my mother’s embarrassment over me, keeping up appearances that are always so important to this family.